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Weight Loss Surgery: What You Should Understand Before Considering It

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  A balanced, evidence-based guide from lived experience and research. 🧩 Introduction Whenever someone is struggling with their weight long-term, weight loss surgery often enters the conversation. I’ve been there — facing the reality of severe obesity, and wondering what options actually work. But there’s a difference between information and understanding , and that difference can change your outcome. This article isn’t here to push you one way or another. It’s here to give you clear, well-researched information plus the context that comes from living through real health challenges. 🍽️ What Weight Loss Surgery Actually Is Weight loss surgery — often called bariatric surgery — includes procedures that change the size or function of the stomach and/or small intestine to reduce how much you eat or how nutrients are absorbed. Common types include: Gastric Sleeve: Removes a portion of the stomach to reduce size. Gastric Bypass: Creates a small pouch and reroutes part of the digest...

What I Learned From 320 Pounds, Starvation, and Starting Over

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  1. The Wake-Up Call Six years ago, I weighed 320 pounds. At 5’10”, every step felt heavy, and every night brought chest pressure that scared me awake. I thought I was done — I had accepted that my story might end prematurely. Then grief hit. I lost someone incredibly close to me, and for a while, I stopped caring about anything. I barely ate for three months, too lost in sadness to notice my body failing. One morning, a muscle cramp reminded me of reality. Eating a banana and a sandwich after days of near-starvation taught me something painful: my body needed care, and I had been ignoring it. But it also showed me hope — once I started caring, even slightly, I felt relief in my chest, my joints, and my energy. 2. Choosing to Fight, Not Give Up I decided then that I would care for myself, not just for me, but for the people I still had here — my children, my grandchildren, and for the loved one I lost. Before my brother passed, we had promised each other we’d get in shape an...